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"Ukutshintsha izinto ezisingqongileyo ezibangela ukukhonkotha"

Uninzi lwezinja zikhonkotha ngenxa yokuziphatha kwe-reflex okubangelwa yinto ethile yangaphandle.Ngeli xesha, kuya kufuneka ufumanise kwaye uhlengahlengise indawo yayo ngexesha.

“Ungakuhoyi ukukhonkotha”

Xa iqala ukukhonkotha kwaye ayikwazi ukuthula, yithathe kwigumbi elivaliweyo okanye kwibhokisi evaliweyo, vala umnyango kwaye ungayihoyi.Xa sele eyekile ukukhonkotha, khumbula ukumvuza ngokumphathisa.Xa umvuza ngokumkholisa, khumbula ukumthulisa ukuze andise ixesha afumana unyango.Ewe, kungcono ukuqalisa uqeqesho kwasebuncinaneni, gcina inja izolile emva kokunika amashwamshwam, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe yandise eli xesha, kwaye uyivumele ifunde le ndlela yokuziphatha ngokuguqula ixesha lexesha, njengokwahlula ixesha lokuvuza lee-snacks zibe ngamacandelo. , imizuzwana emi-5, imizuzwana eyi-10, imizuzwana engama-20, imizuzwana engama-40… njalo njalo.

“Ukuqhelanisa Izinja Nezinto Ezikhonkothayo Zoxinzelelo”

Izinto zoxinzelelo zibhekisa kuzo zonke izinto ezenza inja ingcangcazele, njengabantu abanxibe iimpahla ezingaqhelekanga, iingxowa ezinkulu zenkunkuma, izinto ezingaqhelekanga, ezifanayo okanye ezinye izilwanyana…njl.Ingongoma ephambili yale ndlela yoqeqesho kukuba xa inja ikhonkotha ngoloyiko entweni ethile, indlela yokunciphisa ekhokelwayo isetyenziswa apha.

“Fundisa Inja Yakho Ukuwuqonda Umyalelo 'Othuleyo'

Inyathelo lokuqala kule ndlela kukufundisa inja yakho ukukhonkotha ngokunika inja yakho umyalelo othi “khonkotha!”kwindawo ezolileyo engenaziphazamiso, elindele ukuba ikhonkothe ​​izihlandlo ezibini okanye ezithathu ngaphambi kokuba imnike into emnandi .Kwaye xa eyeka ukukhonkotha kwaye ephunga, mdumise kwaye umnike izipho.Nje ukuba inja yakho ikhonkothe ​​ngokuthembekileyo imiyalelo, lixesha lokuba uyifundise umyalelo “ozolileyo”.

"Phatha inja"

Xa umntu enkqonkqoza emnyango, okanye ekhonkotha xa ejonga into, phosa into emnandi kwindawo echaseneyo kwaye uyixelele ukuba "yiya kwindawo yakho", ukuba igqibile ukutya ngokukhawuleza kwaye isondele, yiphose kwakhona kwaye uyixelele ukuba " yiya endaweni yakho”.Nika umyalelo, kwaye uphinde le nkqubo ingentla ide ihlale kwindawo kwaye izolile, ngelo xesha kunikwa imivuzo engakumbi..

“Mayidinwe kwaye ingabi namandla”

Ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo, oku akuyona indlela.Ukukhonkotha kwenja ngamanye amaxesha kunokutolikwa “njengokutya okupheleleyo”.Ukuba luhlobo lwamandla omelele ngakumbi, kwaye lusathanda ukukhonkotha emva kokuhamba uhambo olude, oko kuthetha ukuba kutyibilika.Ukuba akude ngokwaneleyo, kufuneka unyuse ixesha lokuzilolonga.Ukuba iyazithanda iithoyi, dlala ngayo de udinwe, ukuze ikwazi ukulala kuphela…